Many women wonder what it is with the male fascination with heterosexual anal sex. Men seem to fantasize obsessively about anal sex. Hundreds of porn movies are made every year fetishizing anal sex. Women everywhere debate whether they should or shouldn't have anal sex with their boyfriend or husband. And men discuss amongst themselves how they can convince their female partners to give it a try. When women do have anal sex, the overwhelming majority do so at the request of their male partner. And men overwhelmingly report positive experiences following performing anal sex on a female partner, while more than half of the women who have received anal sex describe it as an unpleasant experience they probably wouldn't repeat. There are paintings and etchings from long ago in Japan, China, and Europe — as well as ancient erotic drawings and pottery from the Mediterranean and South America — depicting men performing anal sex on women.
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News is a nonprofit independent media publication. Your tax-deductible contribution helps support our research, reporting, and analysis. Advice please? There are also heterosexual men who like or love it. And for all of these groups, all of that goes for being on either end of anal sex, as it were, and for people with partners of any or every gender. Human sexuality is incredibly diverse, and all someone liking a given kind of sex can usually tell us by itself is that someone likes that kind of sex. Everyone has an anus. Why do some people think it is?
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Looking to add some kink into the bedroom? My ex-girlfriend and I tried it one afternoon just for the hell of it. She'd actually lured me away from the college football game we were at with a promise that we could try anal if we left at halftime, which seemed like an okay deal to me. There wasn't really anything too special about it, to be honest, and she certainly wasn't enjoying it, though that was probably due to lack of proper preparation and lubrication. I had not. But if a girl seemed really into it and wanted me to try it, I would. We asked guys what really turns them on. Find out what they had to say:. Sometimes you just want more of everything she has.