Before I say anything else, understand that you've got nothing to be scared about here, okay? You also don't need to feel embarrassed about not knowing this stuff: not only do plenty of adult women not know either, it's certainly not your fault that no one has given you thorough sex education or asked if you had any questions. Many people experience fear and shame when it comes to their genitals and sex. A lot of people feel those ways because of a lack of accutrate information and because of people or belief systems creating those feelings. We can help with both of those things, and give both good information and support. You can come talk anonymously and directly with us on our moderated forums anytime. We get a LOT of questions about this whole vaginal "looseness" and "stretched out" baloney, so I won't go on at length here. Instead, I'm just going to tell you that the short story is that the vagina , like your throat, isn't a hole that sits ever open.

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The vagina and the external structures of the vulva naturally range in shape, color, and size. This article describes different types of vagina. We also discuss when to see a doctor based on the appearance of the vagina and factors such as discharge.
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The belief that it is easier to discern the virgin state of a woman than a man is more fable than fact, argues medical anthropologist Sherria Ayuandini. Unfortunately, it is still widely believed and practised to subjugate women. The Human Rights Watch condemned the test as a form of gender-based violence and called on the military to end the practice immediately, which it says violates the prohibition of inhuman treatment under international human rights law. Many pointed out the injustice of the practice, arguing that it is sexist, painful and traumatising. They also point out that virginity is irrelevant to whether or not an officer would be able to do her police duty.
Please refresh the page and retry. Through a hobby group I've now met someone special and we want to have sex. I'm now worried I might be mistaken about myself. Can you help me explain this to him? I can try and help you explain this to him, although I wonder if it is really worth your time.