Guys, believe me when I tell you that this is the biggest sin you can commit when trying to seduce a woman. It will not send us into an orgasmic swoon. Try hugging or kissing. Hold and squeeze our hand. Unload the dishwasher yourself. You have to make us feel sexy and make us want to be sexual. Oxytocin is a hormone that makes us feel loving and connected and helps put us in the mood. So start with a hug.
Take an Interest in Her Pleasure
How to make your wife horny: Why doesn’t she want sex with you anymore?
According to a recent study published in the Journal of Sex Medicine , 87 percent of married men say they consistently experience orgasm during sex. Just 49 percent of women say the same. Some attribute the circumstance to a difference in libido. Others point to gendered roles that unfold during sex. And, some, to a lack of information out there about female sexual anatomy and its ability to experience pleasure. Fortunately, there are other, more inspiring statistics that support the idea that women are, in fact, perfectly capable of orgasm.
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In reality, things are usually much different, and one of the biggest things that guys seem to struggle with when it comes to marriage — if pop culture and Google searches are to be believed — is married sex. Add things like bills, kids and career woes to the mix, and you have a decidedly non-sexy scenario lined up. This person probably sees you at your best and worst, day in and day out. So how do you make married sex … well, sexy? How do you make it fun, spontaneous, naughty and exciting all in one? Every couple is different, and different things will work for different couples.
Read it and act right now! If your sexual relations used to be more satisfying, something probably just went the wrong direction in your relationship. No matter how much you love her, women are sensitive and sometimes they feel insecure in a relationship without any reason.
