There are so many potential problems they would fill a book. I'll paste a URL with links to all of them at the end of this message. But daughter and I agreed that this teaching was unhealthy. We are not judged only for what we do but why we do it. After my divorce I dated Mormon men в disastrous. By the end of the first date with my husband I knew I wanted him to be a part of my life. But thinking of the children I could not live with myself to do that. Trust yourself, trust God and enjoy the beautiful relationship that you have. It won't be easy.
Having said that, I believe strongly that it takes a special individual who can remain active in the church and have a non-traditional marriage. I am now 40, I have been seeing this man now my husband for 17 years. There are a great many beliefs I can't condone but most of them are along the lines of gender stereotyping, and how you apply that to your own life obviously varies by individual. So I am always alone,our communication is not fully connected, he has no time to talk everything with me, causing a lot of misunderstanding.
He doesn't realize that when he spends so much time at the hospital they take this as a sign that he has no home life. We all know people who know that the gospel is true but they will not accept it. You can't gamble on her seeing Mormonism for the shit show that it is. I wish I could find a support group in South Africa. There's definitely strength in kindred spirits.
Also, I know a bunch of Mormons that say they are, but don't act like it. I believe in temple marriage, and in the importance of those covenants. Once she realizes you won't join and she can't get married in the temple, then I suspect everything will be over. Glad I found this post. I do not have the answer в but I keep trying to figure it out.
